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The 3AM Club - a place to feel seen, held and understood.
You are awake.
The world is quiet, but your mind isn’t.
Maybe the baby is curled against you, breathing softly. Maybe you’re stealing a moment for yourself before the day begins again. Maybe no one else is awake, but you are.
Motherhood can be the most beautiful thing you’ve ever known, and also the loneliest.
There’s a moment, somewhere in the middle of it all, where you realise you’re not the same person you used to be. You love the baby in your arms more than anything, but a part of you wonders, Where did I go?
Maybe no one prepared you for how loud the silence of motherhood can feel. Maybe you miss who you were before. Maybe you don’t quite know where you begin and where you end anymore.
I get it. I’ve been there.
What is The 3AM Club?
This is a place for the mother who is still figuring it out.
For the one awake in the still hours, giving so much of herself and wondering if anyone sees how much she holds.
I created The 3AM Club because I know how easy it is to feel like you've disappeared inside motherhood.
They call it matrescence – the transition into becoming a mother, a process that is as physical as it is emotional. Some studies say it takes seven years to feel like yourself again.
But here’s what I believe - it’s not about becoming who you were before. It’s about growing into who you are meant to be next.
And that shift, that deep, quiet change, can feel lonely.
But you don’t have to navigate it alone.
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Consider me your mother friend, twelve years into this mothering journey and still learning.
Still figuring it out.
Still craving a circle of women who get it – who understand the overwhelming emotions, the guilt, the pressure to be grateful all the time, the longing for a moment of stillness in days that feel endlessly stretched.
This is your permission to cut yourself some slack. To know that the weight of motherhood isn’t yours to carry alone.
Consider me your mother friend, twelve years into this mothering journey and still learning.
What to expect from The 3AM Club
💛 Honest Reflections – Stories and words that remind you that you are still you, even as you grow into someone new.
💛 A Window Into Mothering – As a photographer, I have the absolute honour of stepping into the newborn bubble each week – witnessing mothers in their most tender, unguarded moments.
In The 3AM Club, I’ll share tiny glimpses of these moments, reflections on what I’ve learned from the women I meet, and thoughts on the things I know to be true about motherhood – whether you’re expecting or years into the journey.
THE 3AM CLUB IS FOR YOU
You find yourself awake at night, scrolling, overthinking, or just feeling everything at once.
You want something soft, something just for you – a voice in your ear reminding you that you are still here.
Share this with someone who needs it
You’ve ever felt like you’re disappearing inside motherhood.
If you know a mother or mother-to-be who could use a mother in her ear; offering comfort, companionship, and the gentle reminder that she’s not alone – please share this page with her.
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Because sometimes, all we need is to hear a voice that understands.
